The most important thing in life is loving God. Christ stated that the most important commandment was to love God with all our heart, soul, mind, and strength so that should be our greatest aspiration in life. (Matt 22:37) If we can really do those things, and I don’t mean half-heartedly do them in a human kind of way with a human kind of love (like the Greek word Philia); but with a God kind of (Agape) love every thing else will fall into place. This should be our driving ambition.
A natural outcome of loving God is loving those around us with that same kind of love. Jesus told Peter that if he loved Him, Peter would “tend to and feed His sheep.” (John 21:15-19) This is our calling as believers, and we do not have to be Pastors to accomplish it. For example, My wife and I dedicate our time and energy to this calling by serving and giving at our local church. We believe that the local church is God’s chosen instrument to change the world because it gives us the opportunity to partner with thousands of others in our own community to care for and meet the needs of humanity. With our help and the help of other members of our church we’ve been able to open up 14 locations in Zimbabwe to meet the spiritual and physical needs of a repressed people and feed thousands of children daily. Our giving has allowed our friends to travel to Swaziland and Mexico to spread the love of our God to a people desperate for it. In our own country, our partnership with two of our friends has helped them start a church in one of the worst neighborhoods of Detroit where they are meeting the needs of the community and encouraging racial reconciliation and dialogue. We have never been to any of these places, and will likely never meet the people who are being helped, but our financial support is every bit as crucial to their being cared for as the people who use the resources to provide the care. God has given each of us different gifts (Romans 12:3-8), and we are to use those gifts for His glory. Here I only describe the gift of giving, but know that whatever gifts God has given you, it is your calling to use those gifts for the advancement of the Kingdom. Everything we are is His (Psalm 24:1) so for us to give it back to Him is worship.
The worship of God and the pursuit of justice on this planet are synonymous. In Deuteronomy 16:20, God says "Justice and only Justice you shall pursue." Deuteronomy 24:17 says "you shall not deprive a resident alien or an orphan of justice." Whatever you believe about creation or the origins of the universe, I submit that it is impossible to imagine that the amount of disparity we see on this planet today was intended. It is simply impossible to think that it is right for eight year-olds in the U.S. to have ipods while 8 year-olds in Africa do not have anything to eat. Something is seriously wrong and it is our personal responsibility as followers of Christ to be part of the solution. We cannot allow this to continue. The solution starts not with government, although government is good, but with people who say that they believe in God and love Him reaching out to those who have been oppressed or are less fortunate. If every Christian person in the world could put aside their religion and with one heart love God as Jesus commanded, we could eradicate hunger, poverty, loneliness, and oppression. Let's love Jesus the way he has called us to. Let's join together with one heart and be leaders in a world so desperate for it. Let's feed His sheep! If we truly do this, the world will never be the same.
Sunday, July 12, 2009
Friday, March 6, 2009
Checking Your Attitude at the Door
A few years ago, I was a visiting student at Magdalen College, one of the colleges of Oxford University in England. It was an amazing experience for me because I was used to the regimented lifestyle of the Virginia Military Institute where my entire day was usually spoken for and "having fun" usually wasn't in the agenda. At Oxford, I met an amazing group of friends who have gone on to do awesome things in the Kingdom, most notably my roommate Eddie Kirkland who is now a worship leader at North Point Community Church in Atlanta. Eddie and I hung out with a group of Christian girls from California who were also studying abroad. One of them was Kristy Franco, who to my great joy later became Kristy Hepfer. Often the group of us would go out to one of Oxford's dance clubs. I know what you're thinking, but it was all innocent I promise. You can go to a club and still be a follower of Jesus! Due to the intense winters in England, we all had to bundle up to walk to the mile or two to the clubs, especially Kristy because she hates the cold. When we got there, however, we checked our coats at the door. We did this because, unlike the cold harsh environment outside the club, the inside of the club was warm and vibrant. We didn't want to be hindered by our big bulky coats. We wanted to be free to dance and have fun. And we had a blast!
I think this is a good analogy for leadership. Just like the club I mentioned above had a warm and vibrant atmosphere, we want warm and vibrant atmospheres in our organizations, churches, and businesses. If we want that atmosphere, we sometimes need to check our attitudes at the door. I've learned this recently in my life, although I wish I would have learned it before. My "flesh man" is naturally negative, and that natural bent combined with four years at a nearly all male military college and 4 years in the the all male submarine force have made me cold at best, especially when it comes to work. But recently, after an interaction with one of my friends at work, I realized that I wouldn't even want me around with the the way I'd been acting. My words were often a sea of negativity filled with complaints, bitterness, and anger. I felt that I was justified in this attitude because I didn't agree with the way the ship was managed. I saw inefficiencies in our processes, poor management practices, and what I felt was improper treatment of people including myself. I believed that all of this entitled me to the negative attitude that I was harboring and displaying. That is until I realized that it was directly contrary to the Word of God.
To illustrate this point, lets look at what Paul has to say in Philippians 2:1-15:
If you have any encouragement from being united with Christ, if any comfort from his love, if any fellowship with the Spirit, if any tenderness and compassion, then make my joy complete by being like-minded, having the same love, being of one spirit and purpose. Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves. Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others. Your attitude should be the same as that of Christ Jesus; Who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be grasped. But made Himself nothing, taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness. And being found in appearance as a man, He humbled himself and became obedient to death-even death on a cross. Therefore God exalted him to the highest place and gave him the name that is above every name. That at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth, and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father. Therefore, my dear friends, as you have always obeyed-not only in my presence, but now much more in my absence-continue to work out your salvation with fear and trembling for it is God who works in you to will and act according to his good purpose. Do everything without complaining or arguing, so that you become blameless and pure, children of God without fault in a crooked and depraved generation, in which you shine like stars in the universe.
This is an incredibly dense passage, that if we internalize and put into practice in our lives we will actually shine like stars in our world. Why? Because hardly anyone is doing these things. I will cover each of these points in more detail in the coming weeks, but for now I'd like to lay them out in general terms.
1. Do Nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit.
2. In humility consider others as better than yourselves.
3. Look to the interests of others.
4. Your attitude should be the same as that of Christ Jesus.
5. Make yourself nothing and take the nature of a servant.
6. Humble yourself and become obedient.
7. Work out your salvation with fear and trembling.
8. Do everything without complaining or arguing.
Looking at my own thoughts and attitudes towards my work, I can see that I failed to measure up to God's standard. If we truly want to be leaders, we must put these truths into practice and check our own attitudes at the door. If we are able to do this, the outcome will be powerful. This is God's formula for us to shine in a world that desperately needs God's light. I urge you to read and meditate on Philippians 2:1-15 this week. Think about how you can begin to apply these principles in your life. I would love to hear your thoughts and comments.
Wednesday, February 25, 2009
Empowerment: The Key to Reaching the Next Level.
If you want your team to get to the next level, they must first be empowered to think and act as if they are already there. I learned this lesson recently from one of my Leading Petty Officers, Petty Officer Carnegie. For those of you who are unfamiliar with the Navy's rank structure, a Leading Petty Officer, or LPO for short, is like a shop supervisor. He supervises a division made up of several enlisted sailors who specialize in a certain job, such as weapons mechanics, sonar technicians, etc. He usually has around 10 to 15 years of experience in the Navy and reports directly to a Chief Petty Officer who is the senior enlisted leader in the division, usually with 15 to 20 years of Naval experience. The Chief then reports to a Division Officer who is a first-tour officer with anywhere from 1 day to 5 years in the Navy. Division Officers like myself are faced with an interesting problem. Although the Division Officer is a college graduate and the recipient of in depth officer training, he knows very little about his job when he starts. Officers are generalists by nature so that one day they can be Captains of their own ship. Instead of being experts on one aspect of the ship, like enlisted men are, officers must learn something about every facet of the ship. Therefore officers must rely on their Chiefs and LPO's to uphold the standards of the division and to be the technical experts while the officer learns the ropes of his new job.
I recently took charge of a department of three divisions on board my ship, and I am very fortunate that one of them has been recognized as the best on the waterfront. Inspectors have commented that these men are the best they've seen in years, and one of my sailors received the highest grade on a weapons evolution that has ever been recorded. I wish I could take credit for these amazing achievements, but I have had nothing to do with them. They all happened before I took over.
I wondered what it was that made these men special. I've been in charge of other divisions in the past that have not even come close to this kind of success. What were we missing? I found the answer the other day when I gave an order to my LPO. After asking him to do something for me, he responded, "Sir, talk to Petty Officer Murray about that." At first I was a bit taken aback. I am not big on using my rank and position to get things done, but I do expect some military courtesy. Most Petty Officers would have responded with, "I'll get right on that sir," or "No problem." Seeing that I was a bit surprised by his response, he said "Sir, I'm not trying to get out of doing my job, I'm trying to train Petty Officer Murray to be an LPO." In other words, he was training his replacement. Right then it hit me. The reason for all of the success of the division was that their leader was empowering them to take charge. If he wanted his men to perform at a higher level, he had to give them the opportunity to do so. He had to train them and then give over a great deal of his responsibility to them, and trust that they would succeed.
There is a saying in the Navy that goes "authority can be delegated, but accountability can never be delegated." This concept scares a lot of managers, both inside the military and out. It scares me sometimes as well. My LPO is responsible to me for everything that happens in his division, just like I am responsible to my boss for everything that happens in my department. If his men don't do their jobs correctly, I will hold him accountable. But he never lets a fear of failure stop him from giving his men an opportunity to shine. He empowers them to do jobs that other leaders would reserve for much more senior sailors or even ask their officers to do for them. After I began to understand his methods, it became much easier to see how he was able to mold his young group of guys into one of the most successful Torpedo Divisions in the Navy.
A recent article in the Harvard Business Review puts the concept like this, "Let innovators work with live ammunition." (Cohn, Katzenbach, and Vlak, Finding and Grooming Breakthrough Innovators, Dec 08) This is literally what Petty Officer Carnegie does as the Torpedo Division Leading Petty Officer. He allows his men increasing responsibility, literally with real live ammunition and explosives, to build their confidence. The men respond with increased motivation to succeed and the results are indisputable.
I've seen this elsewhere in the Navy as well. Captain John C. Nygaard, Commanding Officer of the USS Vicksburg, a Guided Missile Cruiser, leads his crew with the simple motto, "Confidence through proficiency." I personally observed this Captain allow his junior officers to lead their sailors through complex ship-handling operations unsupervised. He intentionally did not go to the bridge of the ship, as almost every other Captain would, to supervise his officers because he believed that their confidence would increase exponentially if they were permitted to do it themselves. He knew the resulting increased level of confidence of his officers would lead to a much higher level of proficiency, which would pay huge dividends later. In the Navy, increasing the level of proficiency of your crew, is tantamount to increasing the market share of your ship. This kind of leadership, however, takes an incredible amount of courage and wisdom. If one of his officers were to make a mistake and collide with another ship during any of these evolutions, the Captain would be fired. It seems however, that fortune favors the brave. His ship has been recognized consistently as being one of the best.
So how can you start to empower your team to achieve greater things? First, start by identifying your top performers and those with the most potential. From this group, identify the one or two that you think could take your place given the proper training and experience. Once you have identified the one or two people that could take your place, begin to allow them to perform some of the duties that you would normally perform yourself. For example, a marketing manager might allow one of his junior associates to make the sales pitch to an important client, or a Senior Pastor might allow one of his Junior Pastors to take the pulpit from time to time or even lead his own service. The key to achieving success here is to provide your team with the proper mentorship and support before you give them the increased responsibility. When you feel that they are ready, let them go for it and trust them with the results. You'll be amazed at the things that will happen.
Unfortunately however, the amazing things that I'm describing may not happen over night. Captain Eric Merrill was my first Commanding Officer. I only served under him for three months, but he left a lasting impression on me. When he transferred, he was recognized as the number one Captain in the submarine squadron (the best out of 10), and he had two Battle Efficiency Awards two his credit. The "Battle E" as it is know is given to the best ship in the squadron each year. It is the equivalent of being recognized in Fortune or Forbes for business excellence. The day before he left, he called all of his officers into the wardroom and read us a letter he had received from his boss shortly after taking command. In the letter, his boss explained how concerned he was about the level of performance of the ship. He felt that Captain Merrill and the WYOMING were not up to standards and made it painfully clear. The Captain then said something that I'll never forget. He said that he believed so much in his style of leadership that he would not deviate from it regardless of what his boss said. Captain Merrill believed that as Captain, he should not run the ship. He believed that he should as he put it, "be sitting in his stateroom playing solitaire waiting for his Department Heads (principle advisers) to come in and tell him how they were going to run the ship." And, after a little bit of training and coaching, they ran the ship- all the way to being recognized as the number one ship twice. Captain Merrill then said something even more impressive. He said, "I'm not telling you this because I think I did anything special, I'm telling you this because you all did this." Wow! That is leadership. The Captain knew that in order to succeed, he couldn't do it alone. He needed his team not only to perform, but to perform at a higher level. They could only do this if they were empowered to do so by a boss who trusted in them and believed that they could do it. He believed so much that they could achieve greatness that he refused to change his methods even after being warned by his boss.
The final example I'll use to demonstrate this kind of leadership is Jesus Christ. He is the ultimate authority on empowerment. The New Testament is filled with accounts of how Jesus empowered his disciples and others to do what they could not do by themselves. Luke 10 provides an excellent account of Jesus' empowering nature. Jesus appointed 70 believers to go into the cities and preach the good news saying to them "I give you all authority to trample on serpents and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy, and nothing shall by any means hurt you." (Luke 10:19) Why did Jesus empower these followers to go out in his name? Because God uses people to advance his kingdom. He needed a team to fulfill his mighty plan. Jesus said to his disciples "the harvest is truly great but the laborers are few." (Luke 10:2) He therefore handed over his authority to them to change the world. We face the same leadership challenges in our jobs, churches, and non-profits. There is an incredible harvest out there waiting for a team to go out and claim it. Lets learn from Jesus and all of the other examples we've seen of empowering leaders and empowered teams. There is no limit to what we can achieve when we empower our people.
I recently took charge of a department of three divisions on board my ship, and I am very fortunate that one of them has been recognized as the best on the waterfront. Inspectors have commented that these men are the best they've seen in years, and one of my sailors received the highest grade on a weapons evolution that has ever been recorded. I wish I could take credit for these amazing achievements, but I have had nothing to do with them. They all happened before I took over.
I wondered what it was that made these men special. I've been in charge of other divisions in the past that have not even come close to this kind of success. What were we missing? I found the answer the other day when I gave an order to my LPO. After asking him to do something for me, he responded, "Sir, talk to Petty Officer Murray about that." At first I was a bit taken aback. I am not big on using my rank and position to get things done, but I do expect some military courtesy. Most Petty Officers would have responded with, "I'll get right on that sir," or "No problem." Seeing that I was a bit surprised by his response, he said "Sir, I'm not trying to get out of doing my job, I'm trying to train Petty Officer Murray to be an LPO." In other words, he was training his replacement. Right then it hit me. The reason for all of the success of the division was that their leader was empowering them to take charge. If he wanted his men to perform at a higher level, he had to give them the opportunity to do so. He had to train them and then give over a great deal of his responsibility to them, and trust that they would succeed.
There is a saying in the Navy that goes "authority can be delegated, but accountability can never be delegated." This concept scares a lot of managers, both inside the military and out. It scares me sometimes as well. My LPO is responsible to me for everything that happens in his division, just like I am responsible to my boss for everything that happens in my department. If his men don't do their jobs correctly, I will hold him accountable. But he never lets a fear of failure stop him from giving his men an opportunity to shine. He empowers them to do jobs that other leaders would reserve for much more senior sailors or even ask their officers to do for them. After I began to understand his methods, it became much easier to see how he was able to mold his young group of guys into one of the most successful Torpedo Divisions in the Navy.
A recent article in the Harvard Business Review puts the concept like this, "Let innovators work with live ammunition." (Cohn, Katzenbach, and Vlak, Finding and Grooming Breakthrough Innovators, Dec 08) This is literally what Petty Officer Carnegie does as the Torpedo Division Leading Petty Officer. He allows his men increasing responsibility, literally with real live ammunition and explosives, to build their confidence. The men respond with increased motivation to succeed and the results are indisputable.
I've seen this elsewhere in the Navy as well. Captain John C. Nygaard, Commanding Officer of the USS Vicksburg, a Guided Missile Cruiser, leads his crew with the simple motto, "Confidence through proficiency." I personally observed this Captain allow his junior officers to lead their sailors through complex ship-handling operations unsupervised. He intentionally did not go to the bridge of the ship, as almost every other Captain would, to supervise his officers because he believed that their confidence would increase exponentially if they were permitted to do it themselves. He knew the resulting increased level of confidence of his officers would lead to a much higher level of proficiency, which would pay huge dividends later. In the Navy, increasing the level of proficiency of your crew, is tantamount to increasing the market share of your ship. This kind of leadership, however, takes an incredible amount of courage and wisdom. If one of his officers were to make a mistake and collide with another ship during any of these evolutions, the Captain would be fired. It seems however, that fortune favors the brave. His ship has been recognized consistently as being one of the best.
So how can you start to empower your team to achieve greater things? First, start by identifying your top performers and those with the most potential. From this group, identify the one or two that you think could take your place given the proper training and experience. Once you have identified the one or two people that could take your place, begin to allow them to perform some of the duties that you would normally perform yourself. For example, a marketing manager might allow one of his junior associates to make the sales pitch to an important client, or a Senior Pastor might allow one of his Junior Pastors to take the pulpit from time to time or even lead his own service. The key to achieving success here is to provide your team with the proper mentorship and support before you give them the increased responsibility. When you feel that they are ready, let them go for it and trust them with the results. You'll be amazed at the things that will happen.
Unfortunately however, the amazing things that I'm describing may not happen over night. Captain Eric Merrill was my first Commanding Officer. I only served under him for three months, but he left a lasting impression on me. When he transferred, he was recognized as the number one Captain in the submarine squadron (the best out of 10), and he had two Battle Efficiency Awards two his credit. The "Battle E" as it is know is given to the best ship in the squadron each year. It is the equivalent of being recognized in Fortune or Forbes for business excellence. The day before he left, he called all of his officers into the wardroom and read us a letter he had received from his boss shortly after taking command. In the letter, his boss explained how concerned he was about the level of performance of the ship. He felt that Captain Merrill and the WYOMING were not up to standards and made it painfully clear. The Captain then said something that I'll never forget. He said that he believed so much in his style of leadership that he would not deviate from it regardless of what his boss said. Captain Merrill believed that as Captain, he should not run the ship. He believed that he should as he put it, "be sitting in his stateroom playing solitaire waiting for his Department Heads (principle advisers) to come in and tell him how they were going to run the ship." And, after a little bit of training and coaching, they ran the ship- all the way to being recognized as the number one ship twice. Captain Merrill then said something even more impressive. He said, "I'm not telling you this because I think I did anything special, I'm telling you this because you all did this." Wow! That is leadership. The Captain knew that in order to succeed, he couldn't do it alone. He needed his team not only to perform, but to perform at a higher level. They could only do this if they were empowered to do so by a boss who trusted in them and believed that they could do it. He believed so much that they could achieve greatness that he refused to change his methods even after being warned by his boss.
The final example I'll use to demonstrate this kind of leadership is Jesus Christ. He is the ultimate authority on empowerment. The New Testament is filled with accounts of how Jesus empowered his disciples and others to do what they could not do by themselves. Luke 10 provides an excellent account of Jesus' empowering nature. Jesus appointed 70 believers to go into the cities and preach the good news saying to them "I give you all authority to trample on serpents and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy, and nothing shall by any means hurt you." (Luke 10:19) Why did Jesus empower these followers to go out in his name? Because God uses people to advance his kingdom. He needed a team to fulfill his mighty plan. Jesus said to his disciples "the harvest is truly great but the laborers are few." (Luke 10:2) He therefore handed over his authority to them to change the world. We face the same leadership challenges in our jobs, churches, and non-profits. There is an incredible harvest out there waiting for a team to go out and claim it. Lets learn from Jesus and all of the other examples we've seen of empowering leaders and empowered teams. There is no limit to what we can achieve when we empower our people.
Monday, February 16, 2009
The Leader's Biggest Mistake
Recently I had a leadership revelation. Some of you will read this and say, "Duh! How has he just figured this out?" Others will read this and think they are not making the mistake, but in fact they are and they just don't know it. I hope the majority of us will read this and realize our own shortcomings in this area and be convicted to improve.
The biggest mistake any leader can make is not listening to their team. It sounds simple, but how many times have you seen a leader that cannot be told anything. Most times these types of leaders operate under the false pretense that if they spend too much time listening and not enough time speaking they will be regarded as weak. In fact, the opposite is true. Leaders who listen more than they speak will have stronger and more productive organizations. That is why James said, "So then, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear and slow to speak." (James 1:19) If we are swift to hear we won't miss the incredible nuggets of wisdom that others have to offer.
If we refuse to listen, we make ourselves and our organizations susceptible to two major problems. The first is the most extreme and is only applicable to a small percentage of leaders. If we are poor enough listeners our subordinates will become so alienated from us that they will not speak up when their input is most needed. In my profession, this could literally mean the difference between life and death. The second problem is much more subtle, and is rarely observed by anyone except the people who are not being heard. If a culture is established where people's input is routinely disregarded, they will begin to withhold their suggestions. The result is an exponential decreases in the effectiveness of the organization. Truly great organizations achieve success as a result of a collaborative environment where ideas flow freely and people are heard. Solomon knew this when he wrote, "Without counsel, plans go awry, but in the multitude of counselors they are established." (Proverbs 15:22) If the leader doesn't listen, ideas will not flow, and if ideas do not flow, the organization will loose its competitive edge because it will not be able to establish and execute a solid, effective plan. Worse yet, because people know that their ideas aren't valued by their leader, they will begin to adopt the view that their efforts are not valued by their leader either. This is the most damaging effect of not listening because the quality of an individual's work will decline until it reaches some lower baseline level. In most cases, this lower level is "just enough to not get fired."
What makes a failure to listen so destructive is that most leaders who don't listen don't even know it. I have spoken with several leaders who publicly preach that their people are their most important resource, but they fail to maximize the usefulness of that resource because they do not list listen. So how do you know if you are not a listener? You need to take a hard look inside and ask yourself two questions:
1. Do I listen at least twice as much as I talk?
2. When I do listen, am I really listening, or am I just hearing what others say?
If the answer is no to the first question, chances are you're not getting everything you can out of your team. Intentionally try to ask more questions instead of making statements. The second question is much more difficult to answer. In his book Integrity, Dr. Henry Cloud discusses this question at length, but I'll try to give some quick tips here. If you tend to give a quick response to the concern of an individual, chances are you're not really listening. This is because, in order for someone to feel heard, they require a certain degree of empathy from the listener. Many times when we come right back with a quick response to a person's concern they do not feel that we have validated their concern. It is important to note that you do not have to agree with a person to validate their opinion, you merely have to empathize with that person. Another more obvious indicator that you are not really listening is if you do not regard this person's input as useful or important. It is easy for leaders to discount input from others because of a person's lack of experience, perceived intelligence, station in life, etc. This is a mistake. We were all created in the image of God and are therefore of extreme value and worth. As leaders we must recognize this truth and embrace it.
If we can learn to listen to our people, the effectiveness of our organization will increase exponentially. Our people will feel that they matter to the organization and that their input is valued. This will produce the feeling that their work is important. They will then begin to approach their work in a more creative manner coming up with better ways to do their job. They will work better together, and approach their work with more zeal. All of these results can be obtained by creating a culture of listening. I once again encourage you to heed James' advice "be slow to speak and quick to listen." Then sit back and be amazed what your team accomplishes.
The biggest mistake any leader can make is not listening to their team. It sounds simple, but how many times have you seen a leader that cannot be told anything. Most times these types of leaders operate under the false pretense that if they spend too much time listening and not enough time speaking they will be regarded as weak. In fact, the opposite is true. Leaders who listen more than they speak will have stronger and more productive organizations. That is why James said, "So then, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear and slow to speak." (James 1:19) If we are swift to hear we won't miss the incredible nuggets of wisdom that others have to offer.
If we refuse to listen, we make ourselves and our organizations susceptible to two major problems. The first is the most extreme and is only applicable to a small percentage of leaders. If we are poor enough listeners our subordinates will become so alienated from us that they will not speak up when their input is most needed. In my profession, this could literally mean the difference between life and death. The second problem is much more subtle, and is rarely observed by anyone except the people who are not being heard. If a culture is established where people's input is routinely disregarded, they will begin to withhold their suggestions. The result is an exponential decreases in the effectiveness of the organization. Truly great organizations achieve success as a result of a collaborative environment where ideas flow freely and people are heard. Solomon knew this when he wrote, "Without counsel, plans go awry, but in the multitude of counselors they are established." (Proverbs 15:22) If the leader doesn't listen, ideas will not flow, and if ideas do not flow, the organization will loose its competitive edge because it will not be able to establish and execute a solid, effective plan. Worse yet, because people know that their ideas aren't valued by their leader, they will begin to adopt the view that their efforts are not valued by their leader either. This is the most damaging effect of not listening because the quality of an individual's work will decline until it reaches some lower baseline level. In most cases, this lower level is "just enough to not get fired."
What makes a failure to listen so destructive is that most leaders who don't listen don't even know it. I have spoken with several leaders who publicly preach that their people are their most important resource, but they fail to maximize the usefulness of that resource because they do not list listen. So how do you know if you are not a listener? You need to take a hard look inside and ask yourself two questions:
1. Do I listen at least twice as much as I talk?
2. When I do listen, am I really listening, or am I just hearing what others say?
If the answer is no to the first question, chances are you're not getting everything you can out of your team. Intentionally try to ask more questions instead of making statements. The second question is much more difficult to answer. In his book Integrity, Dr. Henry Cloud discusses this question at length, but I'll try to give some quick tips here. If you tend to give a quick response to the concern of an individual, chances are you're not really listening. This is because, in order for someone to feel heard, they require a certain degree of empathy from the listener. Many times when we come right back with a quick response to a person's concern they do not feel that we have validated their concern. It is important to note that you do not have to agree with a person to validate their opinion, you merely have to empathize with that person. Another more obvious indicator that you are not really listening is if you do not regard this person's input as useful or important. It is easy for leaders to discount input from others because of a person's lack of experience, perceived intelligence, station in life, etc. This is a mistake. We were all created in the image of God and are therefore of extreme value and worth. As leaders we must recognize this truth and embrace it.
If we can learn to listen to our people, the effectiveness of our organization will increase exponentially. Our people will feel that they matter to the organization and that their input is valued. This will produce the feeling that their work is important. They will then begin to approach their work in a more creative manner coming up with better ways to do their job. They will work better together, and approach their work with more zeal. All of these results can be obtained by creating a culture of listening. I once again encourage you to heed James' advice "be slow to speak and quick to listen." Then sit back and be amazed what your team accomplishes.
Leading Through Adversity
Yesterday was an incredible day, but it did not start out that way. We were setting up for our second service ever at our new location in Camden County, GA. The previous week, Celebration Church Camden County, got off to an amazing start with great worship, an awesome message, and people getting saved. We were all thrilled to see what God was doing in this community. I serve in the Worship ministry at church and play Bass in the band; something I'm very passionate about. After the first service, our keyboard player made the remark, "It can only get better from here." She was wrong! As we were setting up and going through the sound check process we realized that several channels of the sound system were not responding. Our brand or high energy worship depends on the sound system working and it wasn't. When we realized there was no way we were going to get it working in time for the service, we had a choice. We could get stressed out and point fingers, which is what the enemy wanted us to do, or we could band together and unite even more behind the purpose of lifting God up through our worship. Many of us have been at Churches where the enemy has a stronghold in the area of people's egos. People begin to think that the service is somehow about them. This line of thinking can really get in the way of what God wants to do. We made the decision that this service wasn't about us, and we would give God the best that we had. We would not blame the sound man or anyone else, we would choose to glorify God the best we could. And He showed up! The service was awesome, even though from a human perspective the sound wasn't the best. After the service several of our friends came over for lunch and fellowship. Midway through some of the girls felt led to pray, and then proceeded to have an incredible time of Spirit-led intercession and prayer. The worship of God is the invitation of the Holy Spirit, and if we are unified behind this purpose, and do not allow the enemy to distract us, amazing things will happen!
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